Many women cannot deal with their significant others' having attraction for anyone but them.Which is completely silly because we're only animals. Seriously =o). What do we want from life....what drives us to seek marriage....a lifetime partner??? A need to feel loved,supported. A ideal spouse/partner will be there forever...through everything.BUT. Man/Woman was made to procreate. Like any other animal there are attraction tools we're all equiped with. Flirting,pheromones. I'm a HUGE believer in pheromones. How do you resist a chemical attraction???Why should you??? Because of marriage/relationship? Welllllll marriage or commitment can be whatever you want it to be. If two people agree....a marriage can be whatever your ideal is.

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I can say all of this because I was raised semi radically.Nudity was never a shaming thing. Porn was normal. Sexual talk was bandied about in front of the kids. So even as a child I was highly sexual and very admiring of the human form.

I am self conscious of myself as well. I feel I am pretty but I am far from perfect.I have had children...and my body reflects the fact. Many of the women we choose to meet ARE perfect. They have the gorgeous perky tits and flat creamy stomachs. Buns meant to spank and muscular toned bodies. I have hips.I have a pouchy stomach war ravaged by childbirth.My arms aren't toned muscular machines. My boobs hang.....they weigh 6 pounds a piece..perky isn't a option. BUT!!!! I'm confident in my marriage. I trust in my husband.I know his love and attraction for me are REAL. I know I rock his world.I know he isn't going anywhere.BESIDES I'm not exactly chopped meat. AND!!!!!!! I drool over them as much as he does so why should I deny us????I'm woman enough to admit when another woman is amazing ;)

I've been told many times in all of this that I'm a aberition. A myth. A freak if you will...lol. But I truely think more women think exactly like me. But will never admit to it or their true feelings. Because of religion. In that aspect I believe in God....just not any God that is attached to religion. I believe in one higher being but I don't believe in it the way anyone else does ;) So those fears don't play into my decisions. I have no fear of going to hell or being smited for my decisions.

P.S.  Need to have another category for other or something like that since I can't save without selecting one.